It depends whether we value the tired old ‘stories’ in our heads about men or whether we value bringing the kind of value to the table that men SEE as value for a long term relationship. So WHY are we really focusing on the silly story of ‘oh yeah well mem are just INTIMIDATED BY ME! Simply because we feel sad and hurt that we are alone.
I’m well aware that for a strong woman in her 30s who is finding it difficult to find and meet a good man who is not a jerk can feel disillusioned. And instead of feeling our pain, and feeling our oneness with everyone’s else’s pain – people who also share our pain because they are human – we decide it’s more important to have a ‘cool identity’ and the idea that we are so important and significant that oh my gosh, men can’t even date us because we are so crash hot and so much like a super woman.
In fact, many if not most of these women are uninteresting, shallow, high maintenance and otherwise unworthy of spending time with. So, whenever you see a beautiful woman that you want to approach, remember the above points, be realistic and assume that she is not going to be all that interesting until and unless she proves otherwise.
And this will eliminate much of your fear of approaching her.
However, understanding the actual reasons why no man should be intimidated by a very beautiful woman proves to be a very effective way of eliminating that same feeling.
So, here are three major reasons why you should not be afraid of talking to beautiful women: 1.
Ok.’ From that day on, I noticed that whenever I told men this, this particular reaction was not uncommon at all. Heh, Finally, I feel some sort of power in my life – I’m doing a LAW degree and you can’t compare to that!
Attraction is the thing that lights up his life and lights up yours.
THIS really means that to get in to a relationship; we need to uncover the mask we wear of ‘being intimidating’ to men and reveal our true spontaneous, alive, and innocent feminine self inside.
by Practical It's not a secret that one of the biggest obstacles that men have toward approaching very attractive women is the fact that they are intimidated by them.
When a man hears that these women are just like all other women and that there is no reason to be intimidated by them, he might believe that and yet that argument alone will not eliminate his fear of approaching and meeting those women.
Of course, provided we are feminine inside; which is most of us. It took me ages to learn that my own silly story was destroying my ‘light’ as some weird new-agey people might describe it! But what if this kind of honesty with yourself is required for you to find a loving relationship?